Relationship Mastery:
The Way You Always Wished It Could Be
Don't you miss the way things used to be with your partner?
You’re sick of feeling distant and disconnected.
You just don’t get each other anymore.
You’ve tried everything, and you just don’t know how things can EVER get any better.
Making lasting change is hard. It takes motivation, and if you’ve been struggling in your relationship for a long time, you might not have that motivation anymore.
And in the heat of the fight, the LAST thing on your mind is using that communication tool you learned in that one book.
You’ve read every relationship book on the planet, you’ve listened to the experts, and you might have even tried relationship counseling. Nothing is working.
You just want to feel close again, but you’re starting to lose hope.
This is Dr. Sarah Rattray. She knows what it's like to be stuck, struggling, and feeling like you’re working so hard without getting anywhere.
She can help you and your partner.
In the past three decades of working with couples, Dr. Sarah learned what works. She's helped hundreds of couples turn their relationships around (even the “hopeless” cases), and she knows the Gottman tools and techniques that get results.
Each of these tools is grounded in science and blended with her own insights and experience from her own work.
Relationship Mastery
is the culmination of Dr. Sarah's 30 years of experience
helping couples and is backed by expert findings
and cutting edge psychological research.
She can provide you with a road map of proven tools
and steps to unlock the secrets of your hearts.
In this 8-week program,
you’ll not only learn tools
to completely change your relationship,
but you’ll also learn the key to using them.
All the techniques in the world won’t help
if you don’t use them.
And THAT’S what makes this program different.
Whether you've grown apart, or you're fighting too much, this program can help you get back on track with motivation, tools, and step-by-step guides.
You CAN become friends again. There are steps you can take. If you prioritize and do the work, you WILL get closer again and increase your emotional and physical intimacy. You'll understand each other and feel seen.
It’s easy to forget you even HAVE tools in the middle of a fight. While you'll learn in the lessons what's happening in a fight and how to get out of it, the Stop Fighting SOS bonus will walk you through what to do when you can't remember any of the tools in the heat of the moment.
Motivation is built into this program. Dr. Sarah will teach the keys to unlocking your clarity and motivation to stay on track together, even when it's hard.
There’s no aphrodisiac like feeling seen, heard, and understood!
Coming in 2020...
Are you ready to rekindle your relationship?
Sign up to be notified first when enrollment opens:
Relationship Mastery is for you if:
- Your current relationship isn’t what you expected. It’s not the relationship you'd dreamed it would be when you first got together.
- You feel drained by each other and want to feel energized.
- You want a lot out of your relationship with your partner. You want your relationship to be GREAT. Not only do you want to stop the patterns that aren't working for you, but you still want that dream you had in the beginning. You want that beautiful relationship you pictured when you first fell in love.
- This is for you if you want to be a team of two with your partner to co-create and live the life you dreamed of together.
Relationship Mastery is not for you if:
- You’re in a physically abusive relationship. (If this is the case, please call the National Domestic Violence Hotline to find help in your area.)
- You aren’t willing to work on your relationship and open up to new ideas.
- You are seeking couples therapy. This program is for educational and informational purposes and is not a substitution for therapy.
Relationship Mastery:
The Way You Always Wished It Could Be
A Simple, easy-to-follow structure + tools to help you get
further and deeper in conversations and communication
- 8 Live weekly classes where Dr. Sarah will share the lesson of the week, including a Q & A session at the end (these will be recorded!)
- Community forum to discuss the tools and techniques with other couples, and a place to ask questions of Dr. Sarah and her team
- Easy to access member's area where you can find all recorded sessions along with handouts
- Additional 8 Live weekly Q & A calls where you can ask Dr. Sarah questions about how to implement what you’re learning – remember, this is not therapy. These calls are also an opportunity to practice what you're learning (these will also be recorded!)
Each module includes video instructions and handouts with action steps to take.
Coming in 2020...
Are you ready to rekindle your relationship?
Sign up to be notified first when enrollment opens:
Here's what you'll learn in the Eight Week Relationship Mastery Program:
This is where you’ll learn the critical mindset shifts to prioritize your relationship and make this program WORK.
Everything you need to know to talk and LISTEN so that you actually understand each other.
How to fall back in love and regain the closeness you felt in the beginning of your relationship.
Figure out why you’re REALLY fighting and how to finally stop. (Doesn’t that alone sound amazing?!)
How to have emotionally safe and constructive conversations, and how to use relaxation when your body and mind need it.
Learn how to communicate when things aren’t going smoothly and have those hard conversations that need to happen.
Learn how to design a lifestyle that minimizes unnecessary stressors that create conflict in your relationship, and build resiliency for when stress DOES pop up (because it will!).
Start dreaming and building your future together. This is where you finally create the support and deep connection you’ve always wanted in your relationship!
Coming in 2020...
Are you ready to rekindle your relationship?
Sign up to be notified first when enrollment opens:
Finally understand WHY things go wrong and HOW to make things go right
Gain the confidence you need to make changes and repair your relationship
Develop hope and an achievable vision of the future you want together
TWO Extra-Special Program Bonuses
These bonuses may be the most exciting part of the whole program - they will be like having Dr. Sarah by your side when you need help in the weeks and months following the program.
Program Bonus #1
"Stop Fighting SOS"
If painful fights are your struggle and you want to stop the pattern, this bonus alone can change your relationship! This bonus will help you slow down, cool off, and return to the issue when you’re both calm and open to solutions.
This bonus is a series of step-by-step mini SOS videos to use any time you and your partner find yourselves in an argument or a fight, and want expert, targeted help. The videos walk you and your partner all the way through from escalating conflict, to stopping the fight, to calm again.
There's also a printable handout of SOS steps you can use with, or instead of, the videos.
These are designed for when you're upset and not thinking clearly. Dr. Sarah will walk you through everything you need to do to stop fighting, cool down, and come back together.
You don't need to remember the steps when you're upset - that's the hardest time to remember what to do - because they're all here for you.
Program Bonus #2
"Communication SOS"
Ready to have a great conversation with your partner, and you want to be sure you stay on track?
With these step-by-step videos, Dr. Sarah helps you have important conversations as if she's there by your side, helping you through the whole conversation start to finish. When you're not sure the right thing to say, the next step, how to respond, or how to stay on track, this video series is a communication must-have.
You’ll be able to really see, hear, and understand each other, and feel closer in every conversation.
There's also a printable handout of SOS steps for great communication, to use with, or instead of, the videos.
To finally communicate together the way you've been yearning for, gain deeper understanding and empathy than you ever have before, and really shift your closeness and intimacy, this will be a gamechanger!
Coming in 2020...
Are you ready to rekindle your relationship?
Sign up to be notified first when enrollment opens:
Imagine what it would feel like to ring in the New Year feeling close and connected, and more in love than you have in years.
This is your opportunity to rekindle your relationship, to feel the sparks fly, the way you always wished it could be.
Relationship Mastery Q + A’s
You CAN create the relationship of your dreams, even if it feels impossible right now.
All it takes are the right tools and the motivation to use them.
Are you ready to feel that love and excitement again you felt in the beginning?
Are you ready to feel like you’re finally with “your person?”
Dr. Sarah can help!
Coming in 2020...
Are you ready to rekindle your relationship?
Sign up to be notified first when enrollment opens: